Memorialized

A Wedding Unattire

Beneath the wool, cotton and tweed, Prince Harry's wedding included many family members and guests who aren't strangers to showing a wee bit of skin...

Harry & William

Granddaddy Philip

Papa Prince Charles

A few of the wedding guests

James Corden & David Beckham

A Elegant Elba

Idris Elba

Some actor with a famous wife

A Hardy Boy

Tom Hardy & George Clooney

A Bridegrooms Bro

Harry's friend, polo player and model Nacho Figueras

A couple of Suits

Gabriel Macht and Patrick J Adams

That one family friend you have to invite....

Elton John and David Furnish

Just because, it wouldn't be a wedding without a full moon....

And of course...

In The Grand Scheme of Things...

Singer Steve Grand recently made a lengthy and emotional post about his unhappiness with all of the attention some of his recent images have garnered. While I respect Steve's views immensely, I could not help but think his feelings were based mostly on his own emotions and not the motives of everyone who gave his red swimwear so much attention. Steve is a hell of good looking man, but that is just one part of his appeal. He was great looking before his first single, but it was the song, his video and his sharing of his heart that really drew people in. Most singers, most successful singers that is, get roasted for what they wear, or in some cases, what they don't wear. All of the attention, no matter how off point, speaks to Steve's level of success and I hope he comes to a place of comfort with us loving the entire package, looks, talent and heart.

Wild

It was predictable that after the initial barrage of sympathy based posts about Cecil's murder, the next step would be people attempting to buck the trend and be above it. Those are the people who felt the need to belittle the empathy some had for this glorious animal by making ironic comments pushing the theme that we give more attention to this animal than we do to human lives. They don't get it...

 Cecil is a symbol, and great one at that. Yes, there may be some who are cold to human suffering, but the majority of us are more drained than cold. The media today, both news and entertainment, shove human atrocities down our throats at a lightening fast speed and with damaging frequency. There is literally no where to turn on TV, in movies, in newspapers without hearing, reading and seeing graphic accounts of rape, murder, mass shootings, human suffering, unspeakable violence and degradation in the name of war or Religion.

 After 911, the outpouring of care, support and assistance was both powerful and at it's core natural. People from other states, other countries drove, and flew when they could to New York to offer what little assistance they could. The people of Charleston came together recently in a forceful demonstration of both grief, support and defiance refusing to let a wackjob deter their faith. There is not a day that I don't hear about a missing person or family having lost everything in a fire when the follow-up is about a town or a group of people coming together to help.

 We are not cold to human suffering, we have just had to buffer what we let in. It is essential to our survival that we don't let every human tragedy we see chip away at our core. After Charleston, after 911, my grief and despair for the lives lost crept into every corner of my existence, especially into my nightmares. Being angry about Cecil is safe. We can wrap our heads around a wealthy white American going to Africa and butchering a beautiful animal. We don't like it, but we can understand, and be angry about it.

 The senseless mass murders in a church or movie theatre are harder to wrap our heads around, maybe because in those cases there is never really any acceptable answers. With Cecil there is an answer within our control, charge the person responsible. Our outpouring of grief for this lion is not wrong, it is completely understandable. What would be scary is if the human race ad had reached a point where they couldn't even handle expressing grief about the death of an animal so far away. So for all of those who decided to make those who cared feel wrong, feel guilty, feel some how our caring is misplaced... I again say, you don't get it.